Best ways to move ahead with life

Lately I have been reading more cases of suicides and stress management. Human life is same as it was before 100 years but expectations and competition are higher than ever. No one is satisfied and most of the time jealous about others. Well, well…before you leave this post, thinking I am going to analyze the things and current human life, let me stop here 🙂 (btw, I would write on it separately)

Lately, even I have been a victim of stress and most of the times it results into emotional drainage. And after reading so many ways to come out and having advices from different people and most importantly, after observing so many lives around, I was able to point out some factors, which really works as stress buster, no matter what the situation is. So here they are (you are always free to add your in the list and try out the listed one :-))

Just get out : Yes, get out of it, get out of the situation, get out of the scene, get out of the place. When you think it’s really tough to handle your emotions and you will explode, leave the place, people and surrounding. Just walk away, drive away or do anything but get out of the situation.

It will give you a chance to be alone. And most of the time, when we are alone, our mind starts analyzing different events of life and our response to it. In short, the short term loneliness gives you two important things – peace of mind (as you won’t have to face the tough situation) and time (time to re-think about everything, time to think how to correct the situation)

Do not wait : Do not wait for tomorrow. Most of us wait for better tomorrow, for better family condition, better health condition, better financial condition, better LIFE……believe me life never waits. It flows and so should we. Flow with time. Don’t wait for better days because no one knows future. What if there would be an earth quake and all of us won’t be here? In short, think everyday as last day on this earth. Laugh, learn, smile, hug, love and enjoy like anything. Tomorrow is unknown and yesterday is not in our order, so only option remains is TODAY. Make today better and always hope for better tomorrow :-).

Love yourself : In any case, we love our existence on this earth and no one other than us has right to reverse it. If we want to see / experience  more love, the first step is always – we need to love ourselves.

When ever in tough situation, chant a magic mantra 🙂 – I love myself. Chant this sentence for 25 times and you will feel that magic. Situation will automatically change or atleast you will feel so and that’s enough for time being. Human life is an auspicious gift, which every creature on the earth could not get. So you are special. Enjoy being special and never think about shortening it.

Love little and simple things : Why do we feel better when we show off that we can spend  more money for luxuries,  can travel around the world, can have branded outfits and shoes? Does it make us better human? NO. Then why to feel proud? Why to show off?

Human is a community just like any other community like animals, birds……Have you ever observed how a monkey helps other monkey and how a lion never attacks lion? Ever community on this earth follows the life cycle. We human are the only one who love to hurt other humans. Tomorrow, when you will be on death bed, you will never remember how much money you have in the locker. You will only remember how you enjoyed and lived the precious gift – LIFE.

To enjoy life fully and to avoid regret on death bed, start enjoying little things about life. Enjoy a little walk with hubby, play with a kid for 10 minutes, smile to a stranger, help a stranger and be thankful for everything you have. Because there are millions of people around who do not have even these luxuries. Be happy and spread happiness.

Bigger picture : what if today someone said something wrong about you, what if someone you loved the most turned away, what if you failed the life depending exam, what if you married to a wrong person and what if you are surrounded by wrong people? Time flows and life too. Everything in life has been planned so well that there is no chance that anything can go wrong. If anything is wrong is our disability to not accept or see the bigger picture. Today is tomorrow’s past.

Sit for 10 minutes and close your eyes. Re-live any 5 years of life and think how they shaped up your today. Everything happens for good only and to allow us to move ahead in life. Just don’t think about wrong things in life, think about how it will help you to move ahead. Everyone on this earth goes through a cycle where happiness and struggle comes up turn by turn. Struggle makes up more mature about out decision, teaches about how we should handle the life and shows how true people are always with us, no matter what situation is. So accept the situation and grow.

And finally, look here :

Image 

(photo :jonathanisaacs.com)

DO I need to explain more?

Have a happy weekend and as usual please revert with your comments and likes 🙂

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Best ways to move ahead with life

Lately I have been reading more cases of suicides and stress management. Human life is same as it was before 100 years but expectations and competition are higher than ever. No one is satisfied and most of the time jealous about others. Well, well…before you leave this post, thinking I am going to analyze the things and current human life, let me stop here 🙂 (btw, I would write on it separately)

Lately, even I have been a victim of stress and most of the times it results into emotional drainage. And after reading so many ways to come out and having advices from different people and most importantly, after observing so many lives around, I was able to point out some factors, which really works as stress buster, no matter what the situation is. So here they are (you are always free to add your in the list and try out the listed one :-))

Just get out : Yes, get out of it, get out of the situation, get out of the scene, get out of the place. When you think it’s really tough to handle your emotions and you will explode, leave the place, people and surrounding. Just walk away, drive away or do anything but get out of the situation.

It will give you a chance to be alone. And most of the time, when we are alone, our mind starts analyzing different events of life and our response to it. In short, the short term loneliness gives you two important things – peace of mind (as you won’t have to face the tough situation) and time (time to re-think about everything, time to think how to correct the situation)

Do not wait : Do not wait for tomorrow. Most of us wait for better tomorrow, for better family condition, better health condition, better financial condition, better LIFE……believe me life never waits. It flows and so should we. Flow with time. Don’t wait for better days because no one knows future. What if there would be an earth quake and all of us won’t be here? In short, think everyday as last day on this earth. Laugh, learn, smile, hug, love and enjoy like anything. Tomorrow is unknown and yesterday is not in our order, so only option remains is TODAY. Make today better and always hope for better tomorrow :-).

Love yourself : In any case, we love our existence on this earth and no one other than us has right to reverse it. If we want to see / experience  more love, the first step is always – we need to love ourselves.

When ever in tough situation, chant a magic mantra 🙂 – I love myself. Chant this sentence for 25 times and you will feel that magic. Situation will automatically change or atleast you will feel so and that’s enough for time being. Human life is an auspicious gift, which every creature on the earth could not get. So you are special. Enjoy being special and never think about shortening it.

Love little and simple things : Why do we feel better when we show off that we can spend  more money for luxuries,  can travel around the world, can have branded outfits and shoes? Does it make us better human? NO. Then why to feel proud? Why to show off?

Human is a community just like any other community like animals, birds……Have you ever observed how a monkey helps other monkey and how a lion never attacks lion? Ever community on this earth follows the life cycle. We human are the only one who love to hurt other humans. Tomorrow, when you will be on death bed, you will never remember how much money you have in the locker. You will only remember how you enjoyed and lived the precious gift – LIFE.

To enjoy life fully and to avoid regret on death bed, start enjoying little things about life. Enjoy a little walk with hubby, play with a kid for 10 minutes, smile to a stranger, help a stranger and be thankful for everything you have. Because there are millions of people around who do not have even these luxuries. Be happy and spread happiness.

Bigger picture : what if today someone said something wrong about you, what if someone you loved the most turned away, what if you failed the life depending exam, what if you married to a wrong person and what if you are surrounded by wrong people? Time flows and life too. Everything in life has been planned so well that there is no chance that anything can go wrong. If anything is wrong is our disability to not accept or see the bigger picture. Today is tomorrow’s past.

Sit for 10 minutes and close your eyes. Re-live any 5 years of life and think how they shaped up your today. Everything happens for good only and to allow us to move ahead in life. Just don’t think about wrong things in life, think about how it will help you to move ahead. Everyone on this earth goes through a cycle where happiness and struggle comes up turn by turn. Struggle makes up more mature about out decision, teaches about how we should handle the life and shows how true people are always with us, no matter what situation is. So accept the situation and grow.

And finally, look here :

Image 

(photo :jonathanisaacs.com)

DO I need to explain more?

Have a happy weekend and as usual please revert with your comments and likes 🙂

That LIFE …

When those little footprints become a mature print on beach sand

When those little finger prints become an elder sign on the wall

When those chubby cheeks turns to handsome face in the picture

When those naughty hands turns to supporting hands

When those little joys are memory and new joys are on the way

I appreciate growth of life…

I encourage life…

I love life…

BUT

I want it to stop and breathe while I spend some more time with the little replica of mine

I want it to give me strength and courage to follow new paths and teach the same

I want ….

I want to close the eyes and want to re-live the life

They ask me….

What would I change about my past?

And I smile…

My heart and mind are saying NO.

Its been great till now

And I am confident that the path ahead would also be FINE.

I am in love of that existence called LIFE

I am in love of that species called HUMAN

I am in love of that word called LOVE.

LOVE you LIFE 🙂

Today, I am silently celebrating my existence on this earth…

I am grateful that I am living and singing and dancing and nurturing…

I am happy and spreading happiness

Image

(photo : psychology.co.uk)

Because I know

That sand of time will pass fast and will never come back

Those little one will grow and naughty childhood will never here

And so…

Lets live today….FULLY…

So that we will never regret tomorrow 🙂

5 again?

I stumbled upon Blogging Gratefully…Five by Five..Uh..Seven and decided to do this (I needed some reason to write today :-))

Five Things I Have a Passion For
1. Family/Friends
2. Art (any art which ultimately gives a satisfaction that I can create or make something better)
3. Reading/Writing
4. Food (preparation and eating both)
5. Exploring the world in every terms (one life is really short to achieve this, I know)

Five Things I Would Like to do Before I Die
1. Travel around the world
2. Write a book
3. Join dance class with hubby
4. Attend my son’s graduation ceremony and cry with happiness
5. Live like a human at every moment (do I need to describe this?)

Five Things I Say A Lot
1. My son’s name

2. Love you son

3. No……

4. Huh….

5. Listen…

Five Books And/ Or Magazines I Have Read Lately
1. The Secret Wishlist

2. It started with a friend request

3. The Magic

4. The Secret

5. Who will cry when you die

Five Places I Would Love To Travel To

Each and every continent of the world

(did I answer the question?)

Five Favorite Movies (Maybe You’ve Seen Them Five Times?)
Why five only? Anyways the list goes like this (btw, its not at all the top five because its not possible J)

  1. The Italian Job
  2. Swades
  3. Chak de India
  4. The Golden Compass
  5. Men in Black

Five People I Invite to do this Meme

Why should somebody wait for invitation? Its an open invite…..hey world, please join 🙂

 

Letter from a mother….10 life lessons

  • This world is really beautiful and we are lucky that we are here as human being.
  • Being a human, you always have power but remember, power comes with responsibilities. Always be sympathetic to other habitants on this earth.
  • Try to ignore negative side of others, look positives in them and move ahead.
  • When an elephant passes from the road, dogs always bark but rather than barking they can not do anything to elephant. This is the exact philosophy of life. If you waste time to fight with barking dogs, you will never be able to move ahead. Concentrate on goal of your life and ignore obstacles.
  • Money is mandatory for living life but its not life, remember.
  • When you love someone, trust them blindly and never doubt them. When someone breaks your heart, cry out in a corner and forgive and forget. Move ahead.
  • Always remember – there are some people in this world, who love you unconditionally (the list permanently contains mine and papa’s name)
  • When something is not going on right or the way you expected, be calm. Do not decide in hurry. Give everything sometime. And after sometime, if you do not see things changing positively, decide and stick to the decision.
  • You are the fractionate part of this universe so most of the time (remember, most of the time and not always) try to forget your ego and behave as human.
  • If someone shows smartness to you, show them that you are equally smart, but in a positive way J.